I Refused to Let Coworkers Steal From Me—Maybe I Overreacted

I had just landed a dream job at a respected law firm, fresh out of school, and was honored when my retiring boss chose to mentor me. But soon, my expensive pens began vanishing from my desk. I asked around, but no one confessed. I tried brushing it off—maybe I was forgetful, maybe it was a prank. But when my engraved birthday pen disappeared, I snapped. I accused everyone of being petty thieves. It wasn’t my proudest moment, but losing something so personal pushed me over the edge.

Determined to catch the culprit, I planted a disappearing ink pen on my desk. Sure enough, it vanished. At the next meeting, someone gasped—and to my horror, it was my boss holding the pen. I was stunned. The man I admired, who had guided me, was the one taking my things. After the meeting, I confronted him. He opened his drawer, revealing all my missing pens. My heart sank. I didn’t know whether to feel betrayed or heartbroken.

He explained that his memory was fading—one of the reasons he planned to retire. He’d often grab pens from nearby desks and forget where they came from. Mine was closest. My coworkers had known but kept quiet to spare him embarrassment. I walked out of his office with my pens, but also with the weight of misunderstanding. Their silence had left me in the dark, and my reaction had made me look cruel and impulsive.

Now I’m left wondering—was I wrong to lash out? Should I have waited, asked more questions, shown more empathy? I acted out of frustration, not malice, but the damage was done. I want to rebuild trust, not just with my colleagues, but with myself. Maybe this is a lesson in patience, in compassion, in learning that sometimes the truth is more complicated than it seems.