I Was Sure My Ex Freed My Cat to Hurt Me—Then I Learned the Truth

After things went sideways with his girlfriend, he found himself staring at the awkward aftermath of a breakup. She had asked for a break to work on herself—he wanted clarity, so he called to check in. When she didn’t respond, he suspected ghosting. Three days later, he impulsively adopted a cat—something he’d always wanted but couldn’t have because she was allergic.

A week later, she showed up to “just talk.” Seeing the cat, her face twisted. She called him selfish, and they tore into a heated argument.

The next morning, his heart sank: his new cat was gone. He spent the day panicking, until he saw the cat hiding under a neighbor’s car across the street. His mind raced—was this his ex getting revenge?

The truth? More chilling: someone had stolen his spare key and broken into his home—that’s how the cat escaped.

Wracked with guilt, he realized how fast distrust had poisoned his thoughts. “I accused someone I once cared about deeply,” he wrote. Now, shaken, he worries—have I lost my ability to trust anyone?

Bright Side offers gentle, grounded advice: change your locks and reinforce your home security to restore peace of mind. Reach out for support—whether from a friend, counselor, or even a journal—and give yourself space to heal. Because even when fear clouds judgment, with time and care, trust can grow back stronger.