Ten years ago, my best friend introduced me to her boyfriend. I had a boyfriend too, but I was thrilled for her—it was her first. Over time, I became friends with her boyfriend, and on my birthday, he posted my photo. That’s when Rocky, his best friend, saw it and asked for my number.
Rocky lived abroad but was visiting. He tried to get close, but I had a boyfriend and kept my distance. Still, he didn’t push—he said, “We can still be good friends.” And we were. The four of us became a tight little crew.
After university, my boyfriend broke my heart. Rocky stepped in, checking on me, making me laugh, helping me heal. Around the same time, my best friend broke up with her boyfriend. Rocky and I tried to help, but it didn’t work. They went their separate ways.
Rocky and I grew closer. He spoiled me with gifts, gave me a monthly allowance, and became my partner in mischief. In 2022, he visited Ghana again. We went to a wedding, hung out, and ended up spending the night in a hotel. That night, we crossed a line—but agreed it wouldn’t happen again.
In 2023, I moved to a country near his. We tried meeting up, but plans kept falling through. Then two weeks ago, he came for work. I gave him my address. We went out, came home late, and ended up in bed again. I was on my period and thought that would keep things tame—but we got carried away. I stained the sheets and ran to the bathroom, mortified.
When I came out, Rocky had stripped the bed and asked for fresh sheets. Then he made me tea. That moment changed everything. His kindness, his calm—it made me see him differently. We cuddled, no more touching, just warmth. After he left, he asked why I still wouldn’t give him a chance. And I finally said yes.
Now we’re planning another visit in April. But here’s the catch—my best friend doesn’t know. She cut ties with Rocky after her breakup, and I’m afraid she’ll feel betrayed. I’m torn. Should I wait until after the visit to tell her? Or say nothing at all?
I’m not sure. Maybe I’m overthinking. But I do know this: Rocky has been there for me in ways no one else has. And I want to honor that, even if it complicates things.
